bad experiences in relationships the last one left me like rly bad and i havent had a real relationship since then and maybe if we go out and i told him that im not ready for a relationship he’d be disappointed or s/t and i know that he should understand and maybe im just thinking ahead i just havent been interested in a guy so much since a long time you know

okay well shucks. well before you worry about turning him down, first he’s gotta ask you. of course if you’re not comfortable then you need to find a way to deal with your feelings to avoid getting hurt again. if you seriously aren’t comfortable with a relationship right now, then simply don’t pursue one. you shouldn’t put yourself in a situation that could hurt you because of a crush. because you’re a strong independent woman who don’t need no man and you need to take care of yourself before you do anything with anyone else. 

talk to me about your crushes (or friends) for bonding and advice and fun stuff like that!